postheadericon When Your Friends Turn Out To Be “Energy Vampires”

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Are you one of those individuals who craves to have friends around you all or most of the time? If so have you ever wondered what motivates your craving? Have you ever wondered how discriminating you are when it comes to the types of people you choose to invite into your life and into your energetic space?

Well if you feel more frustrated, annoyed, unheard, depleted, embarrassed, diminished, invisible and so on after spending time with your “friends” then it likely means your choices have been less than discerning.

So why do people choose to spend time with others who deplete rather than invigorate, uplift, and energize them?

Well if there is a “need to have friends” based on:

1. The fear of being alone.

2. The need to be loved liked or appreciated.

3. The need to be taken care of or rescued.

4. The need to feel like part of something.

5. The need to be accepted.

6. The fear of being left out.

7. The need to be valued and/or validated.

How can one enhance their ability to accurately discern who is right and who is not?

Well discernment is based on the ability to feel how another person affects your Life Force Energy or what is generally called “one’s energy”. I’m sure the term “energy vampire” is familiar to you. Energy vampires are individuals who consciously or unconsciously feed off of other peoples’ energy in order to make themselves feel whole, complete, powerful, superior, impressive, and so on.

The reasons listed above for being drawn into such relationships in the first place are rooted in early negative experiences in your life, stored as negative memories, that have programmed you in those ways i.e. to feel fearful and needy.

If I said that all of those experiences actually stand in the way of you ever being free to feel at ease and to draw the right kind of friends into your life how would that feel to you? Probably frustrating because there is no way to undo those experiences is there?

Well that’s where the story takes a dramatic turn. It’s actually possible to permanently release those negative experiences from within once and for all with a new process called the Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).

This will not only spontaneously help you to feel and be more discerning but it will literally change the quality of individuals who you draw into your sphere of friends.

If you would like to experience this process kindly visit the web link below where you can opt for a free introductory telephone/Skype coaching consultation.

Author’s Bio: 

Nick Arrizza, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor, is an International Expert Self Empowerment Life Coach, Relationship and Spiritual Tele-Coach, Author and the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).

A Free 1 Hour Introductory MRP Telephone/Skype Coaching Consultation And Free Copy of My E-book are available upon request (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone charges)

postheadericon Relationships: Why Do Some People Repeat Unhealthy Relationship Patterns?

Just because one is with someone who looks different to the person they were in a relationship with before, it doesn’t mean that their experience is going to be any different. And if ones last experience was generally healthy and functional, this is not going to be something that one is going to complain about.

However, if the relationship they are now in reflects their past relationship and this was a relationship that was unhealthy and dysfunctional, then this is going to be incredibly frustrating to say the least.

This could also apply to someone who is currently taking a break from relationships. After having one unhealthy experience after another; one may have come to the conclusion that it is better to be single than to keep having the same painful experiences or that they need to do something different.

The Intellect

Now, the brain in one’s head is going to come up with all kinds of reasons as to why this is happening. The minds ideas could cause one to gain a greater understanding of why they keep experiencing the same things or it could cause them to end up feeling like a victim.

It is then not possible for one to get to the root of these challenges and gradually move on. Instead, one can end up believing that the world is against them, that they are unlucky and/or that there is something inherently wrong with them.

Education

And as people are generally not educated when it comes to why they are attracted to the people they are and why they attract the people they do, it is not much of a surprise if one ends up feeling hopeless. The fact one has challenges is not the problem, as this is part of life, the problem is that one is unaware of what is actually going on.

When it comes to who one is attracted to or attracts into their life, it is often seen as something that happens randomly. So based on this, there is very little that one can do about what is taking place.

Common Interpretations

It could be taken as a sign that one needs to kiss a lot of frogs before they find the kind of person that they get on with; how the one will soon appear if one just waits long enough. Other people could say that one is just unlucky or too nice, amongst other things.

But ultimately, these are just labels and do not shed any light on why one attracts or is attracted to the people that they are. And more to the point: why they continually repeat unhealthy relationship patterns.

Patterns

There are all kinds of scenarios that can play out here and one may find that they experience some more than others. One may find that they attract people who are emotionally unavailable. They could be drawn to people who come across as charming at first and then before long, end up being abusive.

Another person may show interest in the beginning, but as the relationship progresses, they end up pulling away and one ends up feeling abandoned and rejected. Or another may show interest one moment and then disinterest in the next; it is then hard to work out where one stands.

The Story

So there is going to be what happens and this is the ‘story’ and then there is going to be how one feels as a result of what happens. It would be easy to say that the reason one feels as they do is because of what keeps happening.

And while this could be the case, it is more likely to be due to how they feel. Their feelings are then causing them to re-create the same story over and over again. These are not feelings that just appear and then disappear though; these are going to be feelings that have remained trapped in their body.

Childhood Pain

Even though one is now an adult and their childhood years are behind them, it doesn’t mean that their childhood pain has been processed and grieved. One then ends up repeating their childhood all over again. It is no longer their mother or father who is unavailable for example; it is their present day partner.

So although these experiences don’t allow one to have what they want, they are associated as familiar and therefore safe by their ego mind (the brain in their body). This undeveloped part of them is also looking towards other people to fulfil the needs that were not met by their caregivers.

Unconscious Expectations

One then attracts people who remind them of their caregivers with the expectation that they are going to give them what their caregivers couldn’t. On one side, it impossible for another adult to fulfil these unmet childhood needs.

And as a result of attracting people that reflect their caregivers, one is going to re-create the same experiences and this means they are going to end up feeling the same.

Feeling Work

The emotions that have remained trapped in one’s body will need to be faced and released. What happens or the people one attracts or is attracted to is irrelevant in the grand scheme of things; what matters is how one feels and in facing these feelings.

One is not trying to change how they feel or to think differently, they are simply facing their emotional truth. They are grieving what they didn’t get all those years ago and this is not something that is going to happen overnight.

Awareness

The assistance of a therapist, healer or some kind of body worker may be needed. And as one processes their past, the need to re–create the same patterns will gradually begin to disappear.

Author’s Bio: 

Prolific writer, thought leader and coach, Oliver JR Cooper hails from the United Kingdom. His insightful commentary and analysis covers all aspects of human transformation; love, partnership, self-love, and inner awareness. With several hundred in-depth articles highlighting human psychology and behavior, Oliver offers hope along with his sound advice. Current projects include “A Dialogue With The Heart” and “Communication Made Easy.”

postheadericon Dear Dr. Romance: He isn’t shy about holding hands with a black girl

We’ve kissed, but we’ve only gone as physically far as kissing; he called me his girlfriend.
I told him I had had a bad experience and he is okay with not sleeping with me, so our sleepovers have been fully clothed! He’s called me beautiful, smart, sweet, tender, as well as pet names like
“my baby”, “my queen” (lol), he told me a story about a famous poet whose grandfather was black (it’s silly but I looked it up!) He texts me sometimes to wish me a goodnight, and always seems interested
in what’s going on with my life, he’s makes me laugh, and he has introduced me to his roommate. I know it’s still very early to be making judgments; we’ve only been going out for a month now.

He never ever calls me. His English isn’t perfect and I thought maybe it could be that he’s not sure how to carry a conversation while we’re not face to face, because sometimes in person we misunderstand each other. He does text, though, usually to ask me out.

I was so confused and I cried the whole night. The next day at work I was polite when I saw him but I gave him the cold shoulder,and I think he picked up on it because he tried to make conversation a few
times, he asked me what was wrong and I acted indifferent. Then the next day he found me again and asked me if he could see me again. I said I would be busy, and he seemed so

Do you think I overreacted? When he did call me his girlfriend the following date, it wasn’t because I mentioned it first.

He’s very open with me and tells me things without my asking. He’s told me stories about himself and
his ex-girlfriend in Russia, and it makes me wonder if he’s on the rebound or not completely over her.
I just like him, but I don’t want to be taken advantage of or deceived, or get hurt. I’d really appreciate your help.

Dear Reader:

I think you’re doing a pretty good job of keeping your budding relationship with Pavel clear. You
were able to say “no” when he wanted to move too fast, which is good. However, I think you
must be really hurting from what happened in the past, which is affecting your ability to know what’s OK and not in this relationship. You’re also very insecure about your ethnicity, even though he has shown you that raciel differences are not important to him.  

Author’s Bio: 

Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California since 1978 with over 30 years experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 13 books in 17 languages, including It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction; The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again; Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage, The Commuter Marriage, and her newest, Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences. She writes the “Dr. Romance” blog, and the “Happiness Tips from Tina” email newsletter.

Dr. Tessina, is CRO (Chief Romance Officer) for LoveForever.com, a website designed to strengthen relationships and guide couples through the various stages of their relationship with personalized tips, courses, and online couples counseling. Online, she’s known as “Dr. Romance” Dr. Tessina appears frequently on radio, and such TV shows as “Oprah”, “Larry King Live” and ABC News.

postheadericon Dear Dr. Romance: At first I was hurt, but now I’m irritated.

I do not like my job, I have two more classes before I complete my masters in HR to move to a better position and recently passed the PHR certification. I was talking with my boyfriend about the environment at the company and how they are always threatening to fire people as their way to get people to perform better. They are also very picky. I realize that this is companies way life. His response was, “You act like it is your God given right to work at the company just because you work hard.” I was really shocked with the statement because he is always complaining about his job and his manager. So when I pointed this out. He says when he complains its about something specific. First I was really hurt but the more I think about it the more irritated I become. As if its ok for him to complain. Please advise how to handle this.

Dear Reader:

Author’s Bio: 

Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California since 1978 with over 30 years experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 13 books in 17 languages, including It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction; The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again; Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage, The Commuter Marriage, and her newest, Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences. She writes the “Dr. Romance” blog, and the “Happiness Tips from Tina” email newsletter.

Dr. Tessina, is CRO (Chief Romance Officer) for LoveForever.com, a website designed to strengthen relationships and guide couples through the various stages of their relationship with personalized tips, courses, and online couples counseling. Online, she’s known as “Dr. Romance” Dr. Tessina appears frequently on radio, and such TV shows as “Oprah”, “Larry King Live” and ABC News.

postheadericon Supercharge The Power Of Your Intentions

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Many of us take the time to form an intention to achieve these in our lives.

The forming of an intention usually entails some of the following steps:

1. Having and holding a vision of what you desire in your mind’s eye.

2. Expressing a felt desire for this vision to manifest in your life.

3. The ability to remain detached from the outcome i.e. to put the desire out there and let the universe assist you in creating that which you desire

4. The ability to be patient and just let whatever is going to happen happen.

5. To get out of the way and not try to have any preconceived notion about how your vision is going to materialize.

6. To feel grateful for all that you already have with the recognition that you already have the power and the support that you desire to manifest whatever it is that you desire.

Now of course all of this is easier said than done. Why is that?

Well it’s largely because we have been conditioned during our lifetimes to believe a whole host of other things about what it takes to manifest something.

Additionally, we are also confounded by emotional issues related say to feelings of doubt about our worthiness, our ability or capacity to manifest, our ability to remain detached, our ability to remain patient, or about the amount of work or energy it requires and so on.

These doubts undermine the power of your expressed intention. A simple metaphor that illustrates this goes as follows:

Now when doubts creep in, they act to both reduce the signal strength and scramble the signal. Hence what is being sent is weak and unrecognizable. How can the universe support your desired intention if it can’t even discern what it is that you are asking for? Well of course it can’t.

When you then find yourself feeling disappointed with all of this, what happens? Well, you likely start to doubt the process even more or start to tell yourself things like “I an unworthy person”, ” I must be a bad person because I never get what I want”, “There is no use asking for anything because I’m actually all alone and there is no universal supporting energy” and so on.

The net result of such thinking is that it serves to create more doubts and further weakens you in any future attempts at manifesting what you want. This of course, if you allow yourself to get caught in it, leads into a negative vortex of deprivation and disappointment.

There is now a way to actually “boost” the signal strength and clarity of every one of your intentions so that you can release yourself from the victimized and deprived state you find yourself in.

A new tool called the Mind Resonance Process (MRP) has been developed to help you become aware of all the conditioned beliefs and emotions that undermine the clarity and signal strength of your desired intentions. Once identified these intruders can be released once and for all thus making your intentions increasingly more powerful.

If you’d like to experience how MRP can begin to help you reclaim control over your life please visit the web link below for an introductory telephone/Skype coaching consultation.

Author’s Bio: 

Nick Arrizza, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor, is an International Expert Self Empowerment Life Coach, Relationship and Spiritual Tele-Coach, Author and the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).

A Free 1 Hour Introductory MRP Telephone/Skype Coaching Consultation And Free Copy of My E-book are available upon request (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone charges)

postheadericon Dear Dr. Romance: he can’t forgive me because I did it first.

I’m in high school and going through a rough patch in my relationship I have been with my boyfriend
For 17 months, sort of on an off, but 5 months ago we broke up and I slept With another male an yesterday he told me he had sex with another female after I told him about my mistake, it took hiim 5 months to tell me, and I told him I would forgive him, but he says he can’t forgive me because I made the mistake first. I don’t know if I should stay and try with him or let go because it’s very hard for me to let go. I love him An he makes me happy. Please help!

Dear Reader:

Author’s Bio: 

Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California since 1978 with over 30 years experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 13 books in 17 languages, including It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction; The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again; Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage, The Commuter Marriage, and her newest, Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences. She writes the “Dr. Romance” blog, and the “Happiness Tips from Tina” email newsletter.

Dr. Tessina, is CRO (Chief Romance Officer) for LoveForever.com, a website designed to strengthen relationships and guide couples through the various stages of their relationship with personalized tips, courses, and online couples counseling. Online, she’s known as “Dr. Romance” Dr. Tessina appears frequently on radio, and such TV shows as “Oprah”, “Larry King Live” and ABC News.

postheadericon The One Invisible Quality That Ruins Your Love Life

The most overlooked quality that makes or breaks your love life is not bad luck, but personal timing.

We’re not referring to trying to time the beginning of a relationship for success, such as planning a wedding on the day of a New Moon. Our findings tell us that other forces, such as an individual’s fate, trump such triviality.

Just put yourself out there and choose someone who makes you feel good. Easy, right? Not so fast.

Almost everyone who has looked for a long-term relationship has encountered the usual problems, including wasting time with bad apples, and just not finding good or even moderate compatibility and chemistry no matter how much effort they put into it.

Why do some people have such an easy time finding a good match, and others fail no matter what they do?

Unfortunately, you can’t change your collective timing, no matter how inspired you get. Our findings firmly tell us that your personal timing is part of your predetermination. In other words, your timing reflects your fate (or destiny–same exact meaning–what you can’t change about your life).

Fate and karma are best considered from a very wide scope, as in lifetimes, instead of only part of your current life. It’s one sure way to make sense of the unexplained in life. Your intentions, thoughts, and actions now serve to shape the circumstances of your future lives.

Perhaps you’re wondering, “How can you possibly say a person’s terrible love life has to do with personal timing?” Our theory isn’t rooted in guesswork.

Author’s Bio: 

postheadericon Do Your “Friends” Make You Feel Invisible?

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Do you ever feel like those around you never notice you or never take what you say seriously? Does that ever leave you feeling like you’re invisible to those people you consider your friends? If so are you courageous enough to find out why this is happening to you and change it?

It may surprise you that you are not alone in this experience. Many individuals feel this way at one time or another and it may not be as difficult to resolve as you may think.

So why do your friends make you feel this way?

Well most likely because it is a pattern that you have decided to establish and or accept with them. Now suggesting this is something you created may not sound at all reassuring to you it certainly sounds more empowering than if I said it was all their doing doesn’t it?

If you’re confused let me clarify. If they were responsible for it how empowered would you feel in being able to change it? Not very, because you will be utterly ineffectual in attempting to change other peoples’ behaviors.

Whereas knowing that you created it makes it much easier i.e. all you have to do is discern the fundamental nature of the problem and resolve it. Hence this article!

So here we go.

Now you might say: “Well if I were to speak my truth, and believe me I’ve wanted to from time to time, they might just reject me and I would wind up alone and all by myself”.

Well, I congratulate you because you’ve identified the problem outright!

The problem is that you are a) afraid of rejection and b) afraid of being alone.

These fears undermine you in your relationships and cause you not to take your (truth) self seriously. This clearly shows itself to others and they too respond in kind i.e. they don’t take you seriously either! Hence the feeling of invisibility.

So what can be done to change this? Well having recognized the problem it becomes necessary to look at its roots. Where did these fears originate from in your life?

If you stop and reflect on this simple question for a moment you’ll likely recall one or more memories of events where you were rejected, abandoned, neglected, ostracized, embarrassed, made to feel worthless or unloved and so on.

These memories are still there inside you and it is “they” that are responsible for generating those fears that undermine you and your sense of presence.

The solution is to release them by “erasing” them once and for all! If you have the courage to reclaim your life and your presence you’ll know now in your heart what must be done.

To help you get started with this kindly visit the web site below and request a free introductory telephone/Skype coaching consultation today.

Author’s Bio: 

Nick Arrizza, a former Psychiatrist and Medical Doctor, is an International Expert Self Empowerment Life Coach, Relationship and Spiritual Tele-Coach, Author and the developer of the powerful Mind Resonance Process® (MRP).

A Free 1 Hour Introductory MRP Telephone/Skype Coaching Consultation And Free Copy of My E-book are available upon request (You will be asked to cover your own long distance telephone charges)

postheadericon Keys to a Happy Relationship

Everyone wants the best relationship they can have. The markers of a happy relationship are: Cooperation/partnership, mutuality, laughter and affection. Whether you’re in a relationship now or hoping to be, these keys will help you create a more loving and happier partnership.

The Key to Handling Problems Before They Start:

Be on the lookout for early warning signs that things are getting a little off track between you two:

• If you’re feeling resentful of anything—that’s a definite warning. Resentment is like rust that can eat away at the foundations of the relationship. You need to talk about it, get it resolved.

• Arguments that won’t go away and keep repeating are also signs of trouble.

• Companionable silence is good, resentful silence or hopeless silence (It’s no use—he/she won’t listen anyway) are problems.

• Problems with sex often indicate problems with other kinds of communication.

The Keys to Caring for Yourself Emotionally, Mentally, and Spiritually Are:

• Understand what you need to be happy.

• Don’t dwell on the negative — if something’s wrong, just focus on it long enough to understand it, then change focus to finding a solution.

• Don’t expect your partner to make you happy—that’s your job. You can help each other, but you can’t do it for each other; so figure out what you need, then talk to your partner about how to get it.

• Count your blessings—no matter how annoying your partner may be at this moment, there are many good things happening, also. Don’t let the negative soak up all your attention.

The Keys to Caring about Your Partner Are:

• Listen, listen, listen. The three most important words in a relationship are ‘tell me more.’ To consider your partner’s needs, you need to understand them first. Listening does that. If you both know your partner will always be available to hear what you want to say, you’ll be much happier. Knowing what your partner wants doesn’t mean you have to “give in”—instead, work together to find a solution that works for both of you.

• Resentment is dangerous to you and your relationship. If you find yourself starting to harbor little resentments, take care of it as a favor to both yourself and your partner. Notice hurt feelings and upsets: don’t let them pile up. Talk about it with your partner without being accusing. You can own that something hurt your feelings or upset you without blaming; and your partner is much more likely to own up if he or she does not feel accused.

• Most of the time your partner doesn’t realize how you feel until you say it out loud. Take the time to know what you want to fix the problem before you bring it up. Understand why you’re hurt, and whether it’s something that actually comes from somewhere else—like a previous relationship or your childhood—or it’s something particular to your partner. Then, figure out what you’ll need to fix it.

The Keys to Common Mistakes that Can Alienate Both of You Are:

• Not taking responsibility for your bad moods, fears, and other feelings; and letting your partner feel responsible. That separates you.

• Not making sure you have time for your partner also separates you. Don’t let TV, Internet, work, kids or other people soak up all the time so you don’t have any left for each other. Seek a balance.

The Keys to Getting or Staying Out of a Rut:

When you feel like you and your partner are in a rut—you know you love each other, but you’ve just lost some of that zing when you’re together, there are a few fun things you can do to freshen things up.

• Count your blessings, and share what you’re grateful for. It will enhance the joy in your relationship.

• If you’re bored, you’ve been lazy—get out there and do something together. A walk, a special meal (at home or out, depending on budget) perusing the photo album, a flower, a note—can all create pleasure and joy. Clear the calendar and spend a day just enjoying each other—including great sex. Have a date, like you used to. The zing will come right back.

The Keys to Sharing a Household:

• Learn how to talk over difficult subjects—money, space and style differences—so that they don’t escalate into fights.

• Avoid being territorial. You can share space, and blend your styles. Hopefully, there will be enough space that each of you can have a bit of turf that is yours. You need a corner to retreat to when you get on edge with each other or the world.

• To talk about money, use your business skills. It’s just math — take the emotion out of it, and talk as you would in a business meeting.

Author’s Bio: 

Tina B. Tessina, Ph.D. is a licensed psychotherapist in S. California since 1978 with over 30 years experience in counseling individuals and couples and author of 13 books in 17 languages, including It Ends With You: Grow Up and Out of Dysfunction; The Unofficial Guide to Dating Again; Money, Sex and Kids: Stop Fighting About the Three Things That Can Ruin Your Marriage, The Commuter Marriage, and her newest, Love Styles: How to Celebrate Your Differences. She writes the “Dr. Romance” blog, and the “Happiness Tips from Tina” email newsletter.

Dr. Tessina, is CRO (Chief Romance Officer) for LoveForever.com, a website designed to strengthen relationships and guide couples through the various stages of their relationship with personalized tips, courses, and online couples counseling. Online, she’s known as “Dr. Romance” Dr. Tessina appears frequently on radio, and such TV shows as “Oprah”, “Larry King Live” and ABC News.

postheadericon Is it Live or is it Memorex?

I was reminded by a commercial many years ago (which will of course date me from the 60′s LOL!). There was singer Ella Fitzgerald with a high pitch voice near a wine glass. The commercial showed the glass shattering. Next was a view of a cassette tape player (hopefully I am not the only one who grew up with one!) which was playing the sound of the opera singers voice which shattered the wineglass. The message was that the glass couldn’t tell that it was a recording of the high pitched voice and neither could you while listening to it.

How many times in our life do situations come up that we question? Is this really happening in my current experience or is it a recording of my past? Sometimes it appears so real it’s hard to tell the difference. So what can we do to differentiate what is our reality and what is just a replay from the past? What works for me is to check in on how I’m feeling. If I’m feeling good about what’s happening, this is a validation that this is my reality now. If what’s happening is not making me feel good, it’s probably a trigger from something that happened before showing up now to be healed.

If you’ve realized this to be a Memorex recording of the past, one that feels so real that it must be the truth, take a step back for a moment as there is an opportunity to resolve something incomplete. Acknowledge that this is a message from your past appearing now to be healed so it doesn’t have to keep showing up. Allow yourself to go within and experience what this recording of your past is trying to tell you. Is there something you need to learn from this to help you in a current situation? Was there no closure on something in your past that you can validate, accept for what it was and now be ready, willing and able to release it? Do you need to feel the feeling from this past situation so that you can move on?

Our past is useful not to dwell on but to understand and celebrate as it contributed to who you are today. We constantly get reminders of our previous life experiences and get the choice on how we allow them to shape our present and future. By accepting what happened before and acknowledging their purpose if they appear again is the healing lesson we can have as we continue on this path called life. When life asks you is it live or is it Memorex, take the time to answer the question. What you will find will make a difference for the rest of your journey.

Remember, you are Perfect, You are Powerful, YOU are on Purpose…Now go and live the life you were meant to live.
!n-joy! Namaste

Author’s Bio: 

Anthony Diaz is The Divorce Empowerment Coach; a family law attorney and mediator who has guided those healing from the pain of divorce to find true happiness, meaning and purpose in their lives.

In addition to working with others affected by divorce, Anthony has personally experienced the pain and healing from his own divorce. He realized it was time to help others navigate through the divorce process, move on and heal easier with a life filled with happiness and infinite possibilities.

Anthony is co-author of the books “Faces Behind The Pages That Inspire” and “Creating Relationships And Family With Courage And Compassion” and is currently working with clients who are ready to heal and move on from their divorce NOW.